The 7 Best BDSM Sex Games to Play, Learn and Experiment with Kink

Are you tired of being tied up? Turn on your Oculus headset and let yourself be trampled instead. The VR Compatible Femdom SimulatorWhich its developers say in its itch.io description can also be played with a keyboard on Windows, lets you pretend to be punished by one of three giant monster girls.

Playing in VR adds a sort of tertiary color element to this game – you’re half in the virtual world and half in the real world using the game’s physical “pose detection” and feedback. As is always welcome in NSFW games, you can change the game’s dialogue to relate to the gender, pronouns, and anatomy you prefer. And unlike the other games on this list, Femdom Simulator does not involve romantic relationships or connections. That could make it a good option for solo reflection and play.

Mistress Shayla’s advice: “The best starting point [with BDSM] is to look within and ask why. why Do the in-game activities turn me on? do i like humiliation Do I feel freer when I’m tied up? Maybe I crave the emotional intimacy of being vulnerable with another person, or am I proud that they want to be in a vulnerable position with me?

Once you have explored your own motivations, you can meet others in person or online. Fetlife.com is a great place to find events and classes near you. I recommend going to your local “munch,” which is a very casual, non-sexual meeting, usually at a coffee shop or restaurant. There you can meet others like you in a no-pressure environment.” And while monster girls are impressive, consider that “jumping right into full-time slavery with a leather-clad domme isn’t going to happen. A good kinky scene or relationship means that the needs of both partners are met.”

“The world of BDSM is so broad and encompasses so many things,” said Mistress Shayla.

You might find everything you need from BDSM in games like the ones in this slideshow, but if you want more and have only experienced BDSM in games so far: “Go to as many classes and parties as you can, try online classes out and join discussion groups and discord channels,” said Mistress Shayla. “When you learn how others play, you can discover things about yourself that a video game could never teach you.”